SisterB, there is a book that I recently purchased named, "The Power of Being a Woman - Mastering the Art of Femininity." It is an awesome book, authored by Michelle Mckinney Hammond, a wonderful Speaker, Author and Woman of God.
For the most part a Jezebel spirit, is one that is very controlling and manipulative. It is a work of the flesh, and it operates when we get outside of God's will and purpose for our lives.
Scriptural references can be found in 1 Kings 16:30-33, AND 1 Kings 21:5-10
I hope this helps. Peace and Blessings! - JLO