Coleen,

You need to find out whether this is a check in your spirit or whether this is just you, being nervous. Someone once told me ... to find out whether he is the perfect one for you, ask yourself whether both of you bring each other closer to God when you are together. I think this is quite sound advice because God wants us to be equally yoked.

If you are attending a church, maybe you can approach an elder for marriage counselling. I will pray for you because I believe that God will reveal to you in your inner witness what to do next. Hasn't He said in His Word [Matt 7:7], "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:". I'm going to believe that for you but you have to be first willing to listen. Whatever your decision, believe that God can make all things work together for good.

Father in Heaven,

Even as Coleen seeks for Your perfect will, I pray that You reveal Your will and show her what is this hesitation that she is having. Father, I pray that You expedite and speed up Your confirmation for her. And I pray that You grant her Your peace when You do reveal what is best in this case. I leave this sister in Your loving hands.

In Jesus' Name, Amen. 

Colleen, I want to tell you that before I married my husband I had very cold feet. For me the reason was that I had always made bad choices in men before him. Though we both are working through past baggage, he has been the best decision I've ever made. I pray for you.

Dear Lord,

I lift up Colleen and her possible husband to you. Please guide both of them as to what is your will for them. Please God, I pray that you will give Colleen peace regarding what your will is for her life. We know that you are faithful God and that you will answer the prayers of those who love you. Bless grant Colleen peace of mind regarding this important decision in her life.

In Jesus name Amen