Whoso FINDETH a wife FINDETH a good thing (Prov. 18:22). Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.(Psalm 37:4). These were good scriptures for me to stand on as a man waiting for his wife and they encouraged me and gave me insight on how to prepare for my wife.First,your husband will find you. Just wait on God to direct your husband to you as you are being made a help mate for him. Secondly as you are being made a help mate for your husband, everything that he is praying for in a wife is being placed in you and you are being made to be "the desire of his heart" in everyway. When you meet your husband and he starts sharing his dreams and goals with you, you will already see his vision because God has placed them in you. Adam was simply doing what God had called him to do then out of nowhere God says " I will make a helpmate for him". So as he is doing what God has called him to do know that you are being prepared as a helper. Thats how it happened for me. I met my wife while we were both doing missionary work which is our calling and believe me she is more than I could have ever asked for and I know that when God blesses he is a God that increases. The good thing is that God has put the desire in you to be married so now just wait on the Lord. It is good for the (wo) man who waits on the Lord and to the soul that seeketh him(Lam 3:25).Lastly when he finds you, whether its this man or not, he will run to the mountain top just like I believe Adam did,butt naked and all with his hands lifted to the sky proclaiming to God " You didnt give me a rhino or an aardvark or a gorilla (that would have been a torn up bedroom) but you have given flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone and I PRAIZE U Lord". I hope that this has helped you to wait on God and I will be in prayer that God will give you the desire of your heart as well because your desires shall be his desires. Be Blessed.