You state that you have been "talking"...but have you been discussing the relationship itself, or are the two of you dodging the real issues pertaining to your relationship?

Could it be that you view this relationship differently than the Pastor does?

I would suggest a one-on-one frank discussion between the two of you regarding this relationship.

Maybe this will help you:

James 1:5
If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

John 14:13-14
And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it.

Good luck to you, and I hope that all works out for you the way you hope it will.

God Bless.