Dear guest,

I know how you feel. My boyfriend of 9 years told me the same thing. He told me he doesn't love me anymore and nothing I could say or do will make him stay. I know when someone was determined and he was very determined. Of course, the reason was because he found someone new. It's always easier to make a decision when there is someone new.

I don't know why your husband wants to leave you. Sometimes, it's not good to know why. The thing I can tell you is that when we lean on Jesus, He is our Comforter, Best Friend, Lover and Confidant. He has promised to never leave us or forsake us. God has given you 2 wonderful children, maybe other family and friends. Even if your husband leaves you, there are others who are with you that needs to to be strong. Especially your children.

Don't throw your life away. You may not be able to see it now but God has plans for you in spite of this. Even if this marriage doesn't work out, God will take care of you and your children.

I am now happily married to someone else and God has been doing many other things in my life. I will pray for you for reconciliation, but when all else fails, lean on God. He is there for you.

I've written a prayer email in the past which might be relevant to you:

http://mydevotion.com/logos/asp/viewpyrrep.asp?forumid=11&forumtype=3&topicid=1767&table=prayer

Father in Heaven,

I lift up my sister here. I pray that You will help restore their marriage. I pray that You give my sister here strength and courage and wisdom to handle this situation. I pray that she will be conscious of Your presence at all time and she will learn to lean on You. I dispel all thoughts of suicide in the name of Jesus and pray that as she reads Your word, You will fill her with the right thoughts and the right perspective. I pray for a breakthrough in her life.

In Jesus' Name, Amen 

May God be with you in a special way......... i said a prayer for you.

My thoughts and prayers are with you

Amen 

Lord, You see all things and You see the pain that is in this Guest's heart. Let the Holy Spirit be her Comforter. Let Your love enfold her and ease her pain. Help her to seek You for direction and wisdom. I pray that both of them will see a Christian counsellor to heal this marriage. Help her husband to be willing to give this marriage another try. Help them to be able to sort out their differences, and yet accept each other with all their imperfections.

Lord, You love this guest so much and she is so precious in Your eyes, You wouldn't want her to lose her life. Banish those thoughts of suicide from her, and help her know that You are there by her side. Even as she reaches out to You, I know You will reach out to her as well. Thank You, Lord. In Jesus' Name, Amen. 

changed on Monday, May 24, 2004 9:07:49 PM