Home
| Links
| Register
| Login
|
Favorites |
Bible
Plan |
General Q&A | Forums
| Screensaver
Study Bible | Topical Verses | Prayer | Email Archive | Latest Insights | Verse Q&A | Devotions | Chat |
Forum | New Post |
Prayer Requests: NEED SPIRTUAL HELP FOR SELF AND FOR MARRIAGE |
I WAS MOLESTED AS A CHILD BY A RESPECTED PERSON OF THE CHURCH-A PASTOR. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO DEAL WITH THIS ALL OF MY LIFE. I AM NOW MARRIED AND THE PROBLEM IS THAT I WISH TO DEVELOP A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, BUT I AM HAVING PROBLEMS WITH LETTING GO OF WHAT HAPPENED TO ME AS A CHILD, CAUSING ME TO TAKE MY TIME IN PRAYING, AND GETTING MY LIFE IN THE ORDER IT NEEDS TO BE. PLEASE HELP AND PRAY FOR AND TELL ME HOW I CAN OVERCOME ALL OF THIS. I AM A GOOD PERSON, BUT I HAVE LET CIRCUMSTANCES OF LIFE MAKE ME A SOMEWHAT BITTER PERSON. MY HUSBAND TRIES TO TALK TO ME ABOUT THE BIBLE, BUT WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A PERSON WHEN ALL THEY DO IS TRY TO FIND FAULT IN EVERYTHING THAT I DO, SAY, WORK, WHAT I WEAR, WHO I TALK TO? NOTHING IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM WHEN IT COMES TO ME. HE ALWAYS THROWS UP ABOUT THE "GOOD WOMEN" HE USED TO BE WITH. HE CONSTANTLY COMPARES ME TO OTHER WOMEN AND CRITICIZES EVERYTHING I DO. I KNOW MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING CREATED BY GOD, AND I WANT MY MARRIAGE TO WORK, BUT I AM AT WITS END. I AM AT THE POINT WHERE I AM TIRED OF BEING CRITICIZED AND JUDGED BY SOMEONE WHO REALLY THINKS I AM NOTHING. IT HAS EVEN GOTTEN TO THE POINT WHERE HE THINKS I AM TURNING MY CHILDREN AGAINST HIM, WHEN THAT IS ABSOLUTELY UNTRUE. PLEASE HELP!! | |
Thursday, March 18, 2004 8:47:30 PM guest | |
re:NEED SPIRTUAL HELP FOR SELF AND FOR MARRIAGE | ||
I'm sorry what happened to you when you were a child. What the pastor did in no way at all reflects on the character and nature of God. While God loves us so much, He does not control our actions, otherwise we would all be like zombies without a will of our own. The pastor would have to answer to God his actions. |
||
Wednesday, March 24, 2004 8:36:41 PM guest | ||
changed on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 8:43:06 PM |