Dear sister,
I have been in your shoes. In fact, he said that same thing, that he doesn't love me anymore and that he was seeing someone else. I also felt that I've lost control of my life, but at this time, God just couldn't be closer. God has really brought me out of this from glory to glory. I have reached a new level of intimacy with God and God has given me so much. It's not easy to see it now, but I can tell you one thing ... God is faithful. He is faithful to us. He will never fail us nor forsake us. You are worthy and you are the apple of His eye. You may not understand everything now, but believe me, if your fiancee can leave you for someone else, he is not worth you keeping him. No one is more important than God. No one!
Place your trust in God and in due time, you will see His plans unfold. He is a restorer. If you feel that you have lost something in this relationship, let me tell you something that God tells His people:
[Joel 2:25,26]
25 And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.
26 And ye shall eat in plenty, and be satisfied, and praise the name of the Lord your God, that hath dealt wondrously with you: and my people shall never be ashamed.
Hey, don't limit the vision of your life to this one man. God is not that small and His plans for you will not be confined to only one man. Enlarge the borders of your heart and ask God to show you something greater in your life.
I've seen God coming through for many with broken relationships. He is a God of great reversal. Find your joy in Him and put your trust in Him. Draw closer to Him at this time and He will bring you to greater heights. New things can be birthed in your life if you learn to see things in a different light.
Let me pray for you now.
Father in Heaven,
Jesus, You have gone through everything that we have gone through. You are not a God who does not understand. When all else seems to be breaking apart, yet, we know that You are still in control. You will not let us go. I pray for this sister here that she will be able to taste of more of Your love and she will learn to wrap herself in Your love as Your hands are always extended to us. Lord, I pray that You remove every kind of bitterness and show her Your ways Lord. Let her put her trust in You and I know that things will work out for good for her because You are a faithful God.
I commit her into Your hands.
In Jesus' Name, Amen.
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