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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!


I am so grieved! I have lost everything. My husband, Richard, began an affair nearly 2 years ago with a woman he has worked with for four years. She lived in another state, but was on his delivery route. During his affair with her, before I found out, he had taken our 2 young children(5 and 7)out of state on social outings with her. Six months into their affair, I found out about the relationship and that this woman had also "bonded" with my children. When I confronted my husband, he got in his car and drove out of state to be with her. I could not believe what was happening. I could not believe he made our children a party to his affair. He has always been good to me and I him. I had a complete nervous breakdown, lost my job of 8 years because I could not function,therefore, could not afford an attorney, and attempted suicide. Things then went from bad to worse. Richard filed for divorce on the grounds of my "mental illnes" - although I have NEVER been treated for mental illness before this happened, and the court awarded him total custody of our children (because of my suicide attempt) and our house. I have not been able to see my children in almost nine months. M divorced her husband and left her child and moved out of state into my home with my husband. She does not work, she stays in my home and she cares for my children. We are in the last stages of divorce, and he plans on marrying M as soon as our divorce is final. This woman has taken my husband, my children, my home, my sanity and nearly my life. I want very much to reconcile as we always had a wonderful relationship. When I call and try to talk to him, he tells me that M does not want me to call anymore. When I begged to see my son for his birthday, Richard told me that M did not want me to see the children. IT IS AS IF THIS WOMAN HAS MY HUSBAND UNDER A SPELL! I am trying to pull myself together so that I can at least have supervised visits with my children. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE PRAY! FOR RICHARDS DELIVERENCE FROM M and his salvation. I REALLY TRULY FEEL THAT THERE ARE DARK FORCES INVOLVED. Please pray for reconciliation between Richard and myself (Kay). I fast and pray and read my bible hours every day, for it is the only thing keeping me from giving up completely. Please pray with me. I am BEGGING for your help!!!!
Monday, April 16, 2001 12:02:56 AM guest

re:PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Kay, As you have registered as guest, there is no way that I can contact you. I have a friend, whom I have mentioned, who had a similar experience as you and she has overcome. She ministers a lot personally to women who are having these type of problems. If you email me, I can get both of you in touch with each other. love, Wai Hun
Wednesday, April 18, 2001 6:25:34 AM waihun

re:PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Hello guest, I suppose I can understand part of your grief. I had a similar situation ... except that he left me just before I married him for another. I was with him for 9 years. I also have a friend whose husband left her for someone else. It seemed that nothing that she did could bring him back. We can pray but in the end, we need to know that some things in life are beyond our control. However, our lives, if we yield to God is never out of God's control. Learn to worship God and not depend your life and your happiness on this man. God can start many new things for us even when we find it difficult to believe. [Mark 12:30] And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. What does this mean? We are to love God with everything that is in us. When you attempt suicide, you are actually telling God that somebody else is more important than Him. I have learnt for myself, no ONE can be more important than Him. Even if someone I love abandon me, I am going to continue living for God. Some of the things that I am telling you may be difficult to accept. But I just want you to know that we can overcome. My friend took many years to overcome, but finally, by God's supernatural strength, she overcame. She no longer felt bound and chained to the man. What you have to do now is to find good Christian friends who can support you and pray for you. Get involved in a church and start finding new meaning in your life. Start over. It is not too late. I will still pray for your restoration. But you have got to learn to lift yourself up in spite of the situation and grow closer to God. Depression and self-pity is a choice. You can come out of it, whether or not the man returns to you. I know it is hard, Kay. If you really need to talk to someone, you can email me. Let me pray for you now. Father in Heaven, You say in Your word that what You have put together, let no one put asunder. I pray that You help Kay and her husband to get back together. I pray that You restore to her what she has lost. I'm not sure in what ways but You have promised that You will give us glory and restoration. I pray that You encourage her in her times of need and send the right people along her path to encourage her. I pray that You cause her to arise out of this situation and be victorious. Thank You Lord for I know that she is safe in Your hands. I pray that she will learn to yield to You and You will cover her with Your love. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
Tuesday, April 17, 2001 8:41:20 AM waihun
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