Hello Charis,

Hmmmm ... it's tough when he is not a Christian. I will pray for you but I also want to tell you about what the scriptures say about being with an unbeliever. Everything that I say here is said in love. I know for myself as well that I need a man who is spiritual and who will grow with me spiritually. We have to be spiritually yoked as well, besides emotionally and physically yoked ... when you enter into marriage. A friend once told me on how he would know whether someone is for him ... he would see whether they become spiritually stronger together or he would become weaker from the relationship.

The following are some scripture references: [2 Corinthians 6:14], [Amos 3:3].

Father in Heaven,

I lift up my sister here Charis and her boyfriend Arik to You. I pray that You will open his eyes and remove every kind of spiritual blindness that is hindering him from knowing you. I come against every kind of spiritual blindness and any thing that is hindering him from the full revelation of your love and grace. I pray that You send the perfect labourers to talk to him and to minister to him. I also pray that You give Charis wisdom on how to minister to him and how to pray for him and with him.

I also commit my sister Charis to You. I pray that You shower Your blessings upon her life and You continually guide her in her path.

In Jesus' Name, Amen.