Hello guest,

Cut off the relationship. Stop the friendship. Do not even assume that you can be strong enough to carry on without doing anything wrong.

I know it is difficult when there are feelings involved. But we have a will. And by God's grace, we can control our will.

[1 Corinthians 10:12-14]
12 Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.
13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
14 Wherefore, my dearly beloved, flee from idolatry.

You know that it is wrong. It is easy to fall into temptation. Temptation means temporarily fulfillment of pleasures but it will lead to destruction.

David could have lead a better life, I believe, if he had not fallen and sinned with Bathsheeba. There are consequences of our sins and it is better to live in God's perfect will than to live in His permissive will. And I believe that this would not even be in His permissive will.

If you can get Christian counselling, that will be great. Then you can get some support from others who will be able to help you.

Do not destroy someone else's marriage. God has someone perfect for you. All these other people are decoys. Do not fall for decoys.

Sometimes we have to cut away from others and be lonely and learn to depend on God. When you do that, your light will break forth and you will see that God has a bright future for you. Do not taint it or create setbacks for yourself. Do not live a life that you will wilfully regret. If you really need to talk to someone, you can email me. :)

Father in Heaven,

I thank you for this guest, that she has come to You and has not hidden from You. I pray that You will strengthen her. You will help her to overcome this. Send her the right friends that will give her the right support. Send your angels to guard over her and to protect her. Give her supernatural wisdom and show her the plans that You have in store for her.

I thank You Lord and I leave her in Your hands,

In Jesus' Name, Amen. 

changed on Friday, March 02, 2001 9:28:06 PM