money or gods will, what shall it be?...trust god with your financial issues he will take care of that..i have not yet read a scripture verse that declares a man should have a large or meager amount of money to marry....but it does say it is better to marry then to burn with lust...i am sorry but i agree with gods word and your woman....get married live according to gods will and he will take care of the rest....remember god loves you and wants to take care of you.......this is his promise! 

Ask the Lord for forgivness, remember that he loves you and forgives you. You should not live with her before marrige or have intercourse even if you intend on marrying her. Is sex more important or your future marrige? Sex is something sacred between a man and a wife and it strengthens thier relationship. That's the way God made it. But outside of marrige, sex cheapens your relationship. You may not think it does, but that aftershock will bite you. What if you guys had pre-marital sex because you thought you were going to get married, and never made it to the alter? Do you know the future? Be carefull brother.